He's good...
That whole discussion reminded me of the matrix a little bit... especially this part:
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BlackRain23
Good, good. I almost died there, thinking you were saying that people are born into their destinies and can do nothing about that.
Crisis averted. xD
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Cyrus_Asmodeus
Even if they were, I would still like to pretend that I had the illusion of choice.
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It reminds me of the part where Morpheus asks NEO if he believes in destiny to which NEO replies that he does not, because, he doesn't like the idea of not being in control of his life.
I feel the same way, and from what I've gathered, the same goes for the rest of us as well.